Last Friday night, we held a beautiful, sold-out dinner for hundreds of people in honor of our heroic Belev Echad IDF soldiers.
We’ve done many of these dinners in the past, but this year we used a different caterer—one we’ve never used before.
After the event, Jessica approached me and gushed, “Rabbi, I must tell you something. I’ve been coming to your parties and events for over 12 years and I have never tasted such good food. It was out of this world! Just good, fresh, well cooked, high quality food. And the ribs! Rabbi, I’ve never had such good ribs in my life! And I would know, Rabbi. I own a restaurant, food is my life. I know good food when I taste it. And this, rabbi, this was GOOD!”
High praise indeed!
But not five minutes later, Yankel came my way and confided, “Rabbi, I must tell you something. The soldiers who spoke this evening were unbelievably inspiring. Their stories of courage, sacrifice, and absolute heroism are unlike anything I’ve heard before. And the choir, Rabbi! They sang so beautifully and created an electric ambiance. The only letdown was the food. I’ve been coming to your events for years, and this is by far the worst food you’ve ever served—possibly the worst I’ve tasted in my life. And you know I know food, Rabbi. Trust me, no one understands food like I do!”
Well, there you have it. Whenever you have more than one Jew, you’ll have the full gamut of opinions. And while differing opinions can be a springboard for discussion, they can also lead to massive division and disunity.
During the weeks between Pesach and Shavuot, a plague ravaged the disciples of the great sage Rabbi Akiva because they did not treat each other with respect. They allowed their disagreements to tear them apart, and as a result 24,000 died. We commemorate this tragedy with a seven-week period of mourning, during which various joyous activities are forbidden. On Lag BaOmer—a day we now celebrate—the deaths ceased, making Lag BaOmer a day where we emphasize love and respect for one another despite our differences.
We live in polarizing times, but let’s not allow division and disunity to control us. Despite our differences, we can come together with love and respect and accomplish so much more together.