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Beaten and Broken, but With Unshakeable Faith

Last year, we all assembled in shul on Rosh Hashanah and prayed for the year ahead. We asked for a good year, a sweet year, a year filled with health, happiness, prosperity and nachas from our children. 

Who could have imagined the horrific, monstrous onslaught we would face on Simchat Torah just three weeks later?

Could we even have conceived of our enemies surprising us, attacking us in our homes, slaughtering 1,200 Jews in cold blood, wounding thousands more, and kidnapping 252 men, women, and children? 

14,000 soldiers have since been wounded and the year-long war does not appear to be slowing down at all. The opposite—it is intensifying, with new fronts in the north. 

It’s been a year. A year of terror, fear, hope, disappointment, prayer and protest. 

It has been a year since the reawakening of Antisemitisim and the unignorable realization that we are hated all over the world. Never has it been clearer that we are a nation who dwells alone. 

But through this entire period, we have absorbed two vital lessons: 1. We need each other. 2. We need G-d. 

It has been an extraordinarily humbling year. We’ve seen firsthand that even with our mighty army we are not invincible. In fact, we are vulnerable, surrounded on all sides by enemies only too eager to join in and murder us.

At the same time, it’s been a year replete with miracles and love. We’ve been forced to dig deep within ourselves and realize how much we need one another. 

I met *Rotem last week—a soldier who came to New York with our Belev Echad program. Rotem served in the special forces and was wounded in battle, becoming paralyzed from the waist down. He also lost his left hand and is confined to a wheelchair. 

Rotem was supposed to be married last week, but he postponed the wedding. “I need another four months to do therapy to be able to walk again,” he insisted. “I promise I will walk under that chuppah!” 

Rotem has been broken and beaten but retains unshakeable faith that he will walk again. Fortunately, he has the most incredible friends who support and believe in him. 

This is the spirit of our people, Am Yisrael! We have been broken and beaten but we hold on to our hope and optimism for the future.

In a few days, we will all gather in shul again to crown G-d as our King. The thing our Father in Heaven loves most is when his children get along. This year, let us beseech G-d to send us only revealed good—good that is clear and apparent to our limited human eyes. 

May He bless us all with a shana tova—a good, sweet year with the return of our hostages, peace and healing for our people, and the coming of Moshiach and the Ultimate Redemption.

7 Lessons From the Daring Beeper Operation

In a miracle equivalent to those of Biblical times, Israel stunned the world this week by targeting Hezbollah operatives via their beeper and walkie-talkies in an incredible and daring operation. 

It was an operation unprecedented in scale—genius, calculated, and obviously with G-d’s help—devastating Hezbollah’s capabilities. 

The Baal Shem Tov, founder of Chassidism, taught that everything we see or encounter contains a lesson for us in our service of G-d. Here are 7 lessons from the pager operation we can apply to our own lives: 

1. Strike your enemy when they least expect it! Utilize the element of surprise. In our personal battles against the Yetzer Hara (evil inclination), we often face challenges and obstacles that seem insurmountable. Surprise yourself by donning tefillin or by keeping Shabbat “just because” – when even you expect it the least!

2. Identify where your enemy feels most secure and strike there. Hezbollah terrorists were outfitted with beepers because they believed the old technology was more secure and couldn’t be hacked. In our lives, we need to stay vigilant with our mitzvah observance. Don’t become complacent with what you did this year—add something new!

3. Pulling off an operation like this requires a tremendous amount of planning and patience. Plans had to be constructed months—maybe even years—in advance. Likewise, in life, nothing good can be accomplished without hard work and detailed planning. 

4. From when the idea was conceived until this week when it was realized, the operation required a huge amount of courage and determination. With courage and determination we can succeed in our lives!  

5. In order to facilitate the attack, many many people had to learn to work together. There were teams in Europe, teams on the ground, all coordinating and working together towards one goal. As Jews, only by being united can we overcome all the odds stacked against us!

6. When evil stares you in the face, make no mistake: it must be destroyed. There is no room for error or ambiguity; terrorists and evil can only be dealt with in one way, which is exactly what happened here!

7. Even with meticulous planning and effort, so many things can go wrong at the last second. Faith in G-d played a crucial role here. Let us place our faith in Him now and always! He will certainly help us. 

May these lessons inspire us to confront our personal battles with courage, determination, and faith.

Our Most Challenging Belev Echad Trip to Date

Our organization, Belev Echad, brings wounded IDF soldiers to the USA for medical care and whirlwind restorative outings. At this point, we’ve probably run over 75 trips. Our community jumps at the chance to show appreciation and treat our heroes to the finest that NYC has to offer. 

We’ve faced all kinds of challenges along the way, but our most recent trip was the most challenging yet. The wounds and injuries these soldiers carry are indescribable. While we’ve brought soldiers in wheelchairs and those missing limbs before, this trip was unique because the objective of the trip was to custom-make prosthetics for soldiers in need (and to receive treatment that isn’t available in Israel). This meant that we had many extremely complicated injuries all at once which made it extremely difficult to handle.

At the last minute, the mother of a wounded soldier called and begged us to add her son to the trip. Despite being full, we couldn’t say no to a mother’s desperate plea–these prosthetics are so advanced they literally change lives–so we added him to the group, making us essentially “overbooked.” 

For the past two weeks, I’ve been troubled by the thought of one soldier in particular, “M,” whose injuries cause him indescribable pain 24 hours a day. M served in Israel’s most elite force. He is a career soldier and decorated hero. 

On October 7, he rushed to help, saving many lives, until he and his team were ambushed by terrorists and completely overwhelmed. He was shot multiple times and has hundreds of pieces of shrapnel lodged in his body that cannot be removed. His injuries are so complex and unique, it’s a miracle he’s alive. He cannot sit for more than a few minutes; the rest of the time he needs to lie down. He cannot sit in a car.

I worried how we would manage. How would we transport him? Was it a mistake to include him? Perhaps we should cancel? Or bring him on a future trip? But he wanted to come and see the top NY experts, so how could we refuse?

In addition to figuring out how to manage M’s care, we had another Belev Echad trip planned–to Los Angeles–and two of our most valuable team members had to be leave to attend that, leaving us short-staffed on our highest-needs trip yet!

Thank G-d, our community got involved. One person donated a driver and car, and another donated their time to join the group. Another donated a hotel. And many people jumped at the opportunity to sponsor events and take the soldiers out at night to restaurants. Still, we were left with the problem of what to do with M, and I was genuinely unsure how to manage. 

Then, on Friday afternoon, two days before the trip, I received a call from someone I’d never met, Jack,* who told me he knew M from his time in the army and wanted to join us for Shabbat. He was so excited that M was coming to NY and he really wanted to help in any way possible.

During the call, I asked Jack about his job, and he shared that he had volunteered to serve in Gaza for a few months, and when he returned to NY he was laid off. So I shared my concerns and asked if he could dedicate a full 9 days to being with M from the morning until late at night, so M could participate fully. Jack readily agreed and jumped on the mitzvah! I was so relieved and told Jack he’d taken away my primary worry of the previous two weeks. 

I truly believe that when we push ourselves to do a mitzvah, G-d helps us find a way. I pushed hard to make this trip happen, despite the tremendous and complicated logistics, and G-d send Jack to help realize my goals. I believe that with any mitzvah, if you just make the decision to do something good, then Hashem will find a way to help you make your dream come true!

So go ahead and make your commitment to do a mitzvah. G-d will help you find a way to fulfill it! 

*Names changed to protect privacy.

 

A Global Call for Kindness in the Face of Tragedy

The entire Jewish world is reeling.

Our enemies are ruthless and sadistic; their barbarism unprecedented.

To live at a time when six Jews can be murdered in cold blood, execution style, is unthinkable. Nauseating. Infuriating. Incomprehensible.

Carmel.

Alexander.

Almog.

Ori.

Eden.

Hersh.

They are our family. Our brothers and sisters. Each one an entire world.

And the silence is deafening.

My family and I were in Israel when we heard the news. We watched the protests break out. And then the counter-protests. It felt like the entire country was protesting. The emotions were so raw, the pain so deep, everyone felt the need to do something.

Sunday night we were in Tel Aviv and couldn’t get back to Jerusalem because the roads were closed due to the protests. Then my sister sent me a notice that the airport was going to be shut down by a strike the next day, exactly when we were scheduled to fly back to New York.

We decided to wake up early and hope for the best, bracing ourselves for a long day at the airport. We arrived at 7:30 am and immediately noticed news and camera crews on hand to witness the strike, which was set to begin at 8:00 am. At 8:07 am we were at the El Al check-in counter and I asked the attendant, “Is there a strike today?” She looked at her watch and said, “Well, yes, there is supposed to be one and I am supposed to be striking, but I don't know …”  Thank G-d, we made it onto the flight and the flight left on time.

We needed to get back so the kids could start school on time, but like the protesters, I too feel like I need to do something. We all do. The pain is so raw, the fury so potent. What should we do? What can we do? How can this be happening?

The truth is, we don’t have the answers.

Obviously, the military will do everything in its power to rescue the rest of the hostages and eliminate our ruthless and brutal enemy.

But we simply don’t understand G-d’s ways. How could He allow such evil to exist in His beautiful world?

Amidst all of this pain, Jon Goldberg-Polin’s words at his son Hersh’s funeral struck a chord. “May the memory of my son be a revolution.”

Now that is something we can do. We need to create a revolution with the tools at our disposal: kindness. Nothing is more powerful in the face of evil than love and kindness.

The terrorists don’t differentiate between religious or non-religious Jews, between right-wing and left-wing Jews. To them, we are all simply Jewish. 

We too, must not differentiate. Love all Jews equally. We only have each other. Ignore the differences; embrace unity. We share a core, an essence, a soul. When we are united, no force in the world can break us.

The terrorists sow evil, it’s up to us to harvest kindness. Give charity, even when it’s hard. Invite guests for Shabbat, even when you’re tired. Go out of your way to help others, even if it’s inconvenient.

Do it for us.

Do it for Carmel, Eden, Ori, Hersh, Almog and Alexander.

Do it for the remaining hostages who we desperately hope will be returned alive soon.

May Moshiach come now, end all evil, and reunite us with all our Jewish brothers and sisters. Amen.

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